If a father scolds regularly and at the same time the friends appreciate. What to do in that case?
This is the question received by me through email. As per the contents of question, you watch my videos regularly and that too with family. But your problem is that your father regularly scolds you whereas your friends always appreciate you.
I was waiting for such a question since long and this question must be in minds of lacs of other people too.
If you do not mind, let me ask you that you send your queries and I give solutions, I am in front of camera and you are behind camera.
I am on this seat and you are there away from here. Do you know the reason? Very simple, the only difference is I read books and you do not.
At your age even My father used to scold me at every small thing. Not himself only, even my grand father, my uncle and after I got married, my
father in law too. I was President of Rotaract Club Amritsar South. I used to participate in TV talk shows, I performed my monoacting in youth festivals.
So people often gave me the compliments. So at house, scolding and outside Compliments and appreciation.
My question is, is the father a foe or enemy? does he want your failure? or does he like to see you in pain? Not at all then why he scolds and frowns.
This reminds me of a story. Once there was a sparrow. She forgot her way and went to an ice land. Heavy snow fall on her made her fall in the fields and she got
trapped under the snow. She was sure of her death under the snow as she could not anticipate a single living creature on that ice land. Suddenly a cow passed thereby and
eased her out. The shit fell on snow covering sparrow. By the heat of shit, the snow started melting and sparrow started seeing the light of her life once again. She started
singing songs and chirping. Then a cat was passing from there and heard the voice of that sparrow. She dug the dung of cow and brought the sparow out and killed her and ate her.
The morals of the story are 1. Who put the trash on you may not necessarily be your enemy. 2. Who gets you out of the trash may not necessarily your friend. 3. If you are happy and getting goodness
under the heap of trash, remain there. I am sure you must have received my message.
Coming to point of reading books. Books give you huge knowledge. The stories, analogies give you the solutions of very complex problems. One of my friend despite not knowing English, buys English books. What
he does, he employes a postgraduate student. The task of that part time student is to read the book and tell him the
main points and central ideas. Killing so many birds with a single stone. Giving employment to a person, enriching him with knowledge and at the same time adding values to his own wisdom.
In this section of questions and answers, Ask TS, I produce videos on specific
questions and queries asked by you. Even if you ask any query outside my preview, I will
try to solve that by inviting experts to my channel. So ask me any question, I am there to
address it. I am also in the process of making a panel of counsellors and advisors on different
subjects.
I am trying my best to help you succeed in your life and touch the heights of success and happiness through
my motivational seminars, training programs, books, vidoe and audio training programs. Do share them with your friends and
family. All for Free. My best wishes are with you always. May you get more success and happiness.
Dedicating this video of question and answers to Mr K S Kohli, Chairman of Frankfinn Group Companies, Frankfinn Institute of Air Hostess
Training, Frankfinn Music etc. for his moral support.
T S Madaan
Motivational Speaker & Life Coach
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